Election years are always hard.
You might think that as travel bloggers we can simply escape the bullshit and enjoy our own happy traveling lives, however the opposite is true. The whole world is watching as the USA decides who will be our next leader, and the lack of optimism we feel as Americans has spread far and wide. No matter where we travel people always want to ask us about our political views and our perspectives on our homelands. There’s simply no escape. We feel a sense of responsibility as ambassadors from our homeland to communicate the reality of the situation as best we can, which often times leaves us feeling more hopeless than ever. Simply put, there’s no good option.
We posed the question to travel bloggers around the world, “How do you deal with the fucked up situations in your homeland while representing your country abroad?” We received great responses from expats from several different countries, each with their own unique perspective.
Rachel from USA
I’m quite over this election, to be honest. Personally, I am a socialist, living abroad under a democratic socialist government, and happy as a clam, but I’m from a conservative Evangelical family. Even they are embarrassed to support Trump aloud, but the support is there.
It hurts me especially to know that a president like Donald Trump could make it infinitely harder (it’s already quite difficult) for me to come to the U.S. to live with the man I love. They know and love him, too, but can’t seem to accept that their blind hatred of faceless immigrants also touches one that they know and respect.
As a teacher, I answer a lot of questions from my students about this year’s election. They are incredulous when I explain the system that has made both of these candidates our reality. There’s quite a bit of joking, eye-rolling, and sighing. We’ve made quite a time of drinking and watching the debates and I feel like that’s the healthiest way to deal with something that is so far out of my control.
I’m relieved to be so far away from it all, and Chileans are quite good about consoling those going through moments of disbelief about the current state affairs of their country. And wine helps. Lots of wine. As one of my students said,”Just think of all the memes we’ll have over the next 4 years”. Laugh to keep from crying, amirite?
Natasha from the UK
“I’m a British girl from London and I spent a month studying in France over June this past summer, meaning that I was abroad, in Europe, when my country declared that it was going to leave the European Union.
John and Kach from UK and Philippines
Being a couple from the UK and the Philippines, we’re both in a good position to give our point of view on this subject at the moment! In the wake of “Brexit,’ the UK was left with a prime minister nobody had asked for, a sudden spate of racist abuse in the streets, a supposedly uncertain future and roughly half the voting electorate asking Google what exactly they had just voted to leave. This sounds like a bloody mess, until I realised that it was not all that different to any other election that happens in the UK! So as we spent the month immediately ‘post-Brexit’ travelling around Europe by Interail, I frequently found myself trying to escape conversations which started with, ‘Oh you’re from UK! So how about Brexit?!’ Usually with a wry smile, as if they were saying something clever. I grew bored of faking interest in the topic very quickly, so I started replying, ‘I’m tired of hearing about it,’ then changing the subject.
It’s quite weird for Kach, as her country now has a president who reportedly spent 20 years as a Mayor, cleaning up his city by lining people up and shooting them. It’s ok though, he only shoots the bad ones and he’s a really good judge of character! Now that he’s President of the Philippines, Duterte is apparently taking his cleanup country-wide, having all drug dealers and addicts killed by hit squads. He even publicly announced the names of all politicians and high-level figures who were involved in collusion with the drug cartels, then encouraged them to commit suicide in shame! It took him about 30 minutes to read out the list! Kach is also fed up of answering questions about it, so now she just says, ‘Well I don’t live there and haven’t done for over three years, so I make a point of not commenting.’
Both of these responses seem quite rude, but when people ask questions simply to create an opportunity to voice their uninvited opinions, we feel like it’s justified!
Adam from USA
I decided a long time ago not to vote in this year’s election. Truth be told, I’ve never voted for the President of the United States. I believe that choosing not to vote is just as valid an exercise of freedom as voting. The two major american parties are actually two arms of the same fucked up machine that’s been running america (and much of the rest of the world) for far too long now. I feel that voting for either of them would be akin to giving my consent to the system.
The whole world’s been watching this reality tv show of an election, and they’re laughing at us…but it’s a scared laugh. Clinton is clearly being portrayed as the lesser of two evils, and to a certain extent she is. Trumps policies are unquestioningly anti-american, while Clinton’s are mostly status quo. People frequently ask me how I feel about it and I simply shake my head in sadness. I try my best to explain that Americans don’t actually have much of a choice, that the candidates are basically selected for us, and that either Trump or Clinton will surely come with their own set of sad consequences.
The best way I’ve found to deal with politics these days is just to live your life, love each other, be happy, and don’t worry about it. It doesn’t make sense to try to control something you’ve got no control over anyway. The only thing you can control is yourself, your mind, and your actions. “Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our mind.” -Bob Marley
Dave from USA
Michaela from USA
“What stands out when I’m speaking with people in other countries is the difficulty some nationalities experience when trying to visit the United States. It’s exposed my privilege as an American with a golden passport that I can stamp at my whim.
A consideration with this election is how each candidate might affect my ability to travel to foreign places AND how it might influence other people’s ability to visit America. I think it’s important to foster and maintain good relations with other countries for the good of travelers, present and future.
Unfortunately, I’m not confident in either candidate’s ability to paint the world with rainbows. I guess so much focus has been on Trump’s behavior and Clinton’s emails that I have little idea about how they would unite the world in comradeship.
But like most travelers, I always have a back-up plan. In the event that the 45th President starts to increase our reputation as “dirty Americans,” I got a fake Canadian ID made in Toronto. And I was told by many a Canadian that I would be welcomed with open arms!”
Chiera from Scotland
Gabby from USA
Mri from USA
“I’ve been on the road for over four years now and during that time I’ve had my eyes opened in so many new and heartwrenching ways. Unfortunately, however, I come from a place where at times it seems like the minority of people are able to find compassion for something other than themselves. My most recent way of handling this has been to try to educate them about the truth instead of just the propaganda they hear on TV. And when that doesn’t work, as it mostly doesn’t (surprise, surprise) I take to writing an article about it on my blog. I don’t just rant about them though, but instead give a logical and educational break down of why they’re wrong. Because proving people wrong on the internet is just that important.
And because bombing someone for believing that abusing animals is justified as long as it’s for entertainment and a cool experience, is normally frowned upon. Unless of course, it’s your country that’s doing the bombing. Then that’s totally okay.”